Live Seminar Series

Martha Heineman Pieper, Ph.D. Seminar Series

Intrapsychic Humanism Core Concepts and Clinical Applications

Our Live continuing education programming, which is complimentary with an Intrapsychic Humanism Society annual membership, currently focuses on a series of in-depth seminars in which we will explore, over time: (1) unique insights into the unfolding development of internalized core personal meaning – in being loved, loveable, and causing the caregiver’s love – through informed caregiving relationships through the first few formative years of life, (2) the underlying causes of psychopathology, and (3) a psychotherapy approach to treating not only symptoms of psychological distress, including relationship and behavioral problems, but also underlying instability, deficits, and malformation of core self-worth.

Each seminar series covers a separate chapter of the seminal book, Intrapsychic Humanism, An Introduction to a Comprehensive Philosophy and Psychology of Mind (Pieper & Pieper, 1990). Past seminar series have covered the Introduction and the first two chapters on the development of personal meaning during the first and second years of life. All previous Live seminar series are available as On Demand Seminars. We recommend beginning with the first seminar series and moving through the seminar series sequentially. Each series consists of multiple (4-8) one-hour seminars featuring presentations by experienced clinicians bringing to life the core concepts of Intrapsychic Humanism with examples to illustrate how the concepts can be applied where relevant to childrearing, parent counseling, child play therapy, and adult psychotherapy to help children and adults acquire lasting self-worth.

Live SEMINAR SERIES 5

Chapter 5 – Constitutive-Interpersonal Self Stage

Helping Middle School Age Children And Adolescents Develop Confidence, A Secure Inner Happiness, And The Ability To Make Good Choices

with Applications to Childrearing and Clinical Practice

Marian Sharkey, Ph.D. and Carla Beatrici, Psy.D.

Special Anniversary Rates – Member Rates for Everyone!
Member Rates: Regular: $60 | Early Career Professional: $50 | Student: $40

2026/27 Virtual Seminars
Wednesdays 10:30 – 11:30 am
November 4 & December 2

2 CEs for Psychologists, Social Workers, and Professional Counselors

Seminar Series Description

In this seminar series, we will explore the final stage in the Pieper’s theory of optimal childhood development, termed the Constitutive-Interpersonal Self Stage, from ages 6 to the end of adolescence. We will examine the developmental processes that unfold during this stage culminating in the very important developmental goal of strengthening their inner-well-being and self-worth to be able to remain stable in the face of the ups and downs of everyday life.

We will explain how children’s interpersonal agency grows more reflective based on where their sense of well-being comes from as they move through this stage – from relying upon winning and getting what they want as the source of their well-being, at the beginning of the stage, to a well-being that is no longer outcome-dependent, at the end of the stage. We will explain that when children and teens’ social, cognitive and physical motives are initially dominant, their well-being is dependent, at times, upon winning, getting what they want, and being in control. Through informed caregiving, their inner esteem can be nurtured to become gradually and permanently uncoupled from the failures and successes of everyday experiences. This inner resilience frees them up to pursue and enjoy their interpersonal motives and to be able to make consistently reflective and constructive choices.

We will give special attention to adolescence, which is often mistakenly viewed as a time of inevitable turbulence, turmoil and power struggles with parents. We will consider adolescent behaviors that are mistaken for normal but are, in fact, indicators of psychopathology or inner unhappiness, such as rebelliousness, self-destructive behavior and a persistent need to maintain distance from or create conflict with parents. We will also discuss the misguided belief that adolescence is about achieving independence from parents and that adolescents must go through periods of rejecting their parents to become free of them. We will consider the Pieper’s view of human development that posits that real independence is achieved when a child’s inner well-being becomes permanently independent from the ups and downs of everyday life. We will consider misguided approaches to normative adolescent behavior such as letting them suffer the consequences of their immature behavior or other “tough love” responses that serve to thwart teenagers’ emotional development. And we will describe how parents can understand and respond to their adolescent in ways that will facilitate their emotional growth while maintaining a caring, loving and enjoyable relationship with their teenager.

We will provide examples in applying these developmental insights into childrearing, parent counseling, and therapy for clients of all ages.

Learning Objectives

By the end of the seminar series, participants will be able to:

  1. Explain the unique aim and ultimate achievement of childhood development, according to the Piepers.
  2. Identify one way in which the all-powerful self manifests in both middle childhood and in adolescence.
  3. Describe two adolescent behaviors that are frequently considered normative but are actually indicators of inner unhappiness.
  4. Describe two ways parents can respond to their adolescents’ all-powerful self behavior that will strengthen their teens’ ability to constructively cope with inevitable disappointments.
  5. Identify a way clinicians can apply this understanding in helping clients cope with the inevitable ups and downs of life and strengthen their inner well-being and self-worth.
  6. Describe post-transference experience which occurs at the end of this developmental stage.
  7. Differentiate transference from post-transference experience as it relates to how people experience and cope with the losses of everyday life.

The purpose of the seminar is to help participants develop a deeper understanding of the concepts in Intrapsychic Humanism through reading the original theory enhanced through presentations by seminar leaders and discussion among participants. We want to encourage participants to raise questions about concepts or aspects of the theory covered during each seminar that they find challenging and would like further clarified. We will leave ten minutes at the end of each seminar for questions and discussion focused on the assigned reading. Please be sure to read the reading reference each month in advance of the seminar and come prepared to discuss those concepts. 

Reference for the Seminar Series
Pieper, M.H., & Pieper, W.J. (1990). Intrapsychic Humanism: An Introduction to a Comprehensive Psychology and Philosophy of Mind. Chicago: Falcon II Press. Chapter 5, pp. 177-187; Kindle pp. 188-198.

November 4, 2026The Influence of the All-Powerful Self During the Constitutive–Interpersonal Self Stage
We will first review the main developmental achievements of the previous stage of development, the Regulatory-Interpersonal Self stage, which were explained in Seminar Series 4. We will describe how the all-powerful agent self structure that arose in that stage continues to be a source of well-being from ages 6 through adolescence. We will examine how this all-powerful source of illusional well-being manifests during both middle school age and adolescence and discuss how parents can respond in ways that facilitate their child’s emotional development.
Reading Reference: Chapter 5, pp. 177-184; Kindle pp. 188-194

December 2, 2026: Post-Transference Experience: An Inner Well-Being That is Independent of the Ups and Downs of Everyday Life
We will describe how the all-powerful self becomes destructuralized by the end of this stage leading to a post-transference experience where the now young adult’s inner well-being and self-worth is no longer outcome-dependent and vulnerable to the losses of everyday life. We will provide clinical and parenting applications, including ramifications of this developmental stage for adult functioning and interpersonal relationships in both healthy development and psychopathology.
Reading Reference: Chapter 5, pp.184-187; Kindle pp. 194-198

25th Anniversary

Professional Development Program, Public Lecture
&
Celebratory Luncheon

Co-Sponsored by

The Chicago School
Smart Love Family Services

Open to Mental Health Professionals and the General Public

Saturday May 15, 2027
12:30 – 4:30 pm

The William J. Peper, M.D. Lecture

Caregiving that Helps Children Develop Inner Self-Worth and Builds a More Caring Society: 
Incorporating a Developmental Lens in Supporting Parents and Caregivers

Carla Beatrici, Psy.D. and Marian Sharkey, Ph.D.
Paula Ciccaroni, Ph.D. and Ilinka Novakovic, LCSW
And Q&A with Martha Heineman Pieper, Ph.D.

3 CEs for Psychologists, Social Workers, and Professional Counselors

Special Anniversary Rates – Member Rates for Everyone!
Member Rates: Regular: $90 | Early Career Professional: $75 | Student: $50 | General Public (No CEs): $50

Seminar Series Description

In our 25th Anniversary program, we will explore the groundbreaking child development theory by Drs. Martha Heineman Pieper and William J. Pieper, Intrapsychic Humanism and their Smart Love parenting approach. The implications of their developmental perspective extend well beyond the parent-child relationship. In a world of rapid changes brought on by new technologies like AI and the effects of social media, understanding how caregiving relationships foster children’s inner well-being and core self-worth is more important than ever. Intrapsychic Humanism offers a framework for applying this understanding more broadly to the ways we collectively raise and care for children with the potential to strengthen relationships and well-being across families and communities.

In the first part of our program, we will describe the developmental theory from birth through adolescence with an emphasis on understanding children’s developmental and emotional needs through the eyes of the child. We will explore how informed responses from parents and caregivers can help children in developing an internalized unconditional self-worth that affords them inner well-being amidst life’s inevitable ups and downs, along with a capacity for genuine self-regulation—an ability to engage in self-caretaking and to be caring toward others. Together, these capacities provide a foundation for genuinely happy and meaningful lives.

While early parenting and caregiving relationships are central in the development of a child’s inner well-being and core self-worth, every caregiving relationship with a child has meaning and the potential to strengthen these capacities. This includes family members involved in children’s lives, such as grandparents and aunts and uncles, as well as professional caregivers, such as teachers, daycare providers, nannies, coaches, and tutors. These relationships can have positive developmental impacts at any point in a child’s life. In the second part of our program, we will examine how any caregiver in a child’s life, as well as professionals across disciplines and in a variety of settings, can use this developmental lens to strengthen their relationships with children and specific ways they can respond to children’s needs for core self-worth. The aim is to provide participants with a coherent developmental framework for understanding not only what children need from the adults who care for them, but why particular responses can help children develop an enduring capacity for inner happiness and reflective self-regulation.

Finally, we will show how these child development concepts can be applied in specific, practical ways by professionals working directly with parents in a variety of settings, including mental health and counseling centers and community organizations. It is never too late for professionals to help parents respond more effectively and accurately to their children’s emotional and developmental needs. Throughout the program, we will connect child development theory to the realities professionals encounter in their everyday work, offering practical ways to translate developmental understanding into meaningful support for parents and children.

Learning Objectives

At the end of the program, participants will be able to:

  1. Describe the unique understanding in Intrapsychic Humanism of babies’ primary need and preeminent motive for personal meaning and unconditional self-worth
  2. Explain how intrapsychic core self-worth differs from traditional explanations of interpersonal self-esteem
  3. Using this understanding of intrapsychic core self-worth, describe how parents can respond to support a baby’s motional/intrapsychic development
  4. Identify a primary developmental loss that babies experience during the first year of life and an intrapsychic caregiving response that helps babies mourn the loss and facilitates their development of core self-worth/inner well-being
  5.  Explain the main developmental achievement by the age of 2 of stable veridical intrapsychic agency, according to Intrapsychic Humanism, and what it affords young children
  6. Explain the roles of the all powerful self and the interpersonal no response in the development of interpersonal agency in toddlers
  7. Describe how the source of a child’s interpersonal well-being shifts and evolves from when the child is a toddler to the end of adolescence and what this change affords children in terms of their capacity for more stable well-being and resilience
  8. Identify common misconceptions about infant and toddler development that can interfere with caregivers’ optimal responses and children’s development of inner self-worth
  9. Describe at least two ways parents and any type of caregiver, such as grandparents, coaches, and nannies, can help children mourn inevitable day-to-day losses and disappointments and strengthen their capacity for genuine resilience
  10. Describe at least two ways parents and any type of caregiver can use this developmental lens to strengthen their relationship with children and ultimately a child’s inner self-worth
  11. Explain how professionals can respond sensitively and effectively to parents’ resistance, discomfort, or ambivalence regarding support for strengthening/improving their parenting
  12. Describe how professionals can apply this developmental lens in concrete ways to support parents and caregivers in child welfare and community settings, while taking into account the significant environmental and psychosocial stressors that may shape family functioning and parenting

Seminar Leaders